\u201cCon gi\u1ecfi l\u1eafm\u201d, \u201cCon th\u1eadt th\u00f4ng minh\u201d, \u201cSao d\u1edf qu\u00e1 v\u1eady con\u201d \u2013 tr\u1ebb em ng\u00e0y nay th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i (hay ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh) nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y t\u1eeb b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y. Li\u1ec7u \u0111\u00e2y ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i v\u00f4 th\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00f4 ph\u1ea1t hay s\u1ebd t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb? L\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn h\u01a1n trong vi\u1ec7c khen ng\u1ee3i, ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh v\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn con cho \u0111\u00fang c\u00e1ch? Nhi\u1ec1u nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ec9 ra r\u1eb1ng khi ch\u00fang ta khen ng\u1ee3i con th\u00f4ng minh, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh l\u1ed1i T\u01b0 Duy B\u1ea3o Th\u1ee7 (Fixed Mindset). Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, khen ng\u1ee3i n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c s\u1ebd gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c T\u01b0 Duy C\u1ea7u Ti\u1ebfn (Growth Mindset), gi\u00fap c\u00e1c em hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng ch\u00ednh N\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c m\u1edbi l\u00e0 con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. V\u1eady cha m\u1eb9 n\u00ean n\u00f3i nh\u1eefng g\u00ec, v\u00e0 n\u00f3i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, m\u1ed7i khi khen ng\u1ee3i con c\u00e1i?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
C\u00f9ng g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 Tony Ngo \u2013 Ch\u1ee7 t\u1ecbch \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi l\u00e0 s\u00e1ng l\u1eadp vi\u00ean c\u1ee7a Everest Education, \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chia s\u1ebb b\u00ed quy\u1ebft v\u00e0 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh Tony trong vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con bi\u1ebft t\u1ef1 tin h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n